Everyone has probably seen one and sometimes there is even one in your house. No one talks about it, they just walk around it or sometimes goes under it and every once in a while over it but no one talks about it! Why? Because it is painful, hurtful, can make you mad and act crazy that is why. However, after awhile the elephant causes so much emotion that one thing happens with it and then it leads to another and poof the Elephant is gone. You are glad & happy and sometimes more than not you are just flat out relieved it is gone. You know the elephant is BIG but you never know how much until it is gone. And once it is gone you feel like you can breathe again. You aren't saying it in less painful, etc. but now you have a working point and it is way easier to maneuver without the big elephant in you way.